Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Please, I need help right now.?

I is good that you are not into the role playing any longer and I suspect because you found what you believed to be real love in the real world, He is still in that make believe world though and may always be there. The thought comes to mind that this is like fishing when you catch the first fish and throw it into the bottom of the net and then fishing for more. If he really loves you he would also have no need for that virtual world but I suspect that he can not leave that behind him to move on with you. I suspect that some people who play these games have no real self esteem and are easily influenced by those who have an inflated opinion of themselves and he is the latter one. You should tell him that you found that he was on that site and tell him that you need to get into some premarital counseling before actually marrying but I doubt he will agree. Then it is time to give yourself some space and call the wedding off for a while. You can go to this site and get some good information about relationships and self esteem which may help but the bottom line is that he has to choose that life online or a real life with you

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