When Jesus talked about the sin of Sodom and said ual immorality makes a man unclean, was he "phobic"?

phobia, as used today, has nothing to do with fear. It is less related to true phobias (acrophobia, claustrophobia, etc) than it is to "-isms", such as ism, antisemitism, and ageism. You can take comfort in knowing that as a bigot, you are being a good Christian. You are also in the same boat as whoever wrote the story of Lot.